The Winner is always part of the answer
The loser always part of the problem
The Winner says “Let me do it for you”
The Loser says “That’s not my job”
The Winner sees an answer for every problem
The Loser sees a problem in every answer
The Winner goes through a problem
The Loser goes around a problem and never gets to it.
The Winner makes commitment
The Loser makes promises
The Winner focuses the gain
The Loser focuses the pain
The Winner says “It may be difficult, but it’s possible”
The Loser says “It may be possible, but it’s too difficult”
The Winner thinks “ I’m good, but not as good as I should or could be”
The Loser thinks “I’m not as bad as some of the others”
The Winner make it happen
The Loser make it happen.
So Which one your choice friend???